How To Overcome Narcissism

By: Oronde Bolden

A devotional I made that talks about the cure for narcissism. May it bless you in Jesus name.

I love what Paul says right here in Philippians 2:3-4

3. “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.

4.Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also for the interests of others.”

The reason I love what he says so much here is because this is truly an inspiration of Jesus Christ and not of man himself. Christ being God in the flesh looked out for everyone, but Himself. Perfect example, dying on the cross for the sins of the world.

Jesus taught us to deny ourselves and pick up our crosses and follow Him (Matthew 16:24). What does that mean? Put down your desires and what you want and pick up what I desire for you. So Paul in Philippians is just reiterating what the Lord has said.

Naturally, men/women are narcissistic. Sometimes it stems from upbringing, not having much and finally having alot, seeking attention etc.. but God wants to conform us into His image to look like Him.

So when we do come to Him, He gives us His Spirit and a new heart that can only give that type of love to put others before ourselves. In a world that’s saying “give me”, full of selfishness, making everything about me etc..

We need the character of Jesus Christ to put others before ourselves. If we don’t have, may resources help us to guide others to their needs.

This is what I love about these scriptures. Jesus is the perfect example of selflessness 🙏🏾

Written by the Holy Spirit through God the Father’s servant Oronde🙏🏾

The Beautiful Gospel Of Jesus Christ Study/Devotion

By: Oronde Bolden

Introduction: A beautiful bible study that the Lord inspired me to create. There are many times where many of us have an emotional encounter with the Lord, but not a full heart change and knowing exactly what Jesus Christ truly saved us from. The gospel seems to be missing in many sermons today when this is the time where it should be preached the most. I’m praying that this study opens up your understanding more and that you truly become born again (John 3:3) in Jesus name.

If you think you’re not in need of the Savior (Jesus Christ), just look at the Ten Commandments! I challenge you to test yourself honestly looking in the mirror (moral law) it’ll blow your mind😁

Scripture Below👇🏾

Romans 7:7
Romans 3:19-23
Galatians 3:24-26

After studying those scriptures, meditate on these scriptures here as well👇🏾

John 6:28-29
Ephesians 2:8-9
Titus 3:5-7

We don’t have to work for our salvation! Our good works stem from the Holy Spirit living within us. We must be able to humble ourselves and recognize our sinful condition before Christ. God resists the proud, and gives grace to the humble (James 4:6).

If we’re not humble, we’re prideful! The reason I bring up checking out the mirror (ten commandments), because it exposes the wicked heart. We all think we’re good people according to human standards and comparing to other humans (Proverbs 20:6). But God’s standard is perfection!

With God’s standard being perfect, there’s no way we’d make it (Romans 3:23)! And this is why Jesus came to take our place! He was the living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God to die in our place! Because of His death burial and resurrection, we can now live.

Sin separated us from God and had/has us in a hole that we can’t/couldn’t get out of! Jesus took our debts (sins) and paid them off to be debt free! All we have to do is receive the free gift of salvation! There’s an eternity after this and I want to see you there! God bless everyone🙏🏾

Only The Lord

By: Oronde Bolden

It was only the Lord who knew me before He formed me in my mother’s womb. It was only the Lord who could form my eyes, nose, mouth and create the DNA that I have. It was only the Lord who could have chose family members, neighbors etc.. to teach me about Him even when I didn’t listen at a young age. It was only the Lord that kept me from getting jumped and hurt badly from running my mouth so much in middle school. It was only the Lord who gave me grace when I was told to empty my pockets because I was looked at as I was lying. It was only the Lord who helped me sincerely pray when my brother died at 13 not truly knowing exactly who He was. It was only the Lord that put the desire in me at 16 to want to get to know Him more. It was only the Lord that kept me from getting a gun, cutting myself, getting my belt to hang myself when I was suicidal. It was only the Lord that kept sending messenger after messenger to tell me about who He is. It was only the Lord that baptized me with His Holy Spirit. It was only the Lord who taught me how to be a man. It was only the Lord who could help me fight off my sexual lust. It was only the Lord who could help me to love the ones that hurt me. It was only the Lord that showed me how to forgive. It was only the Lord who taught me what a leader is. It was only the Lord that helped me type this blog and share part of my story! It was only the Lord 🙏🏾

Galatians 2:20- I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.

Reflection Of Life

By: Oronde Bolden

No matter what happens in life, I wake up this morning and look back at how far along the Lord has brought me.

Since I was 16, knew that the Lord had purposed for me. I didn’t understand fully what it was, how to come to Him and I enjoyed my sin. I knew that if I came to Him though that I couldn’t do what I wanted to anymore and I wasn’t ready to do that just yet.

I wished God wasn’t real back in 2014, because I was reading the Bible without understanding. I seen the way to live and I knew I couldn’t do it myself because of my sinful desires.

Partially influenced by the Hebrew Israelite movement back in late 2014 and early 2015. I believed black people were the original Israelites from the Bible. I just couldn’t hate white people like certain camps did.

2015 God showing me what has kept my grandparents together all these years (47 years at the time). He showed me that it was ONLY Jesus.

For the whole 2015, the Lord’s convicting me greater than ever! He would convict me when I cussed, fornicated, had bad motives, taking sleeping pills and night quill etc..

In 2015, the Lord sent someone at my job to minister to me and speak a word of knowledge over me that only the Lord knew. The guy knew I was seeing shadows and everything. At night after work, I would see dark shadows while playing the game. At this point in my life I’m suicidal, already thinking like “hey shadows if you’re going to kill me just kill me then.” I use to be so ready to die. But God🙌🏾

In 2016 February 28th, the Lord saved me! I see now that my life was not my own and that He has chosen me since the beginning of the foundations of the earth. After all the years of putting the Lord off KNOWING He’s calling me! And He still didn’t kill me in my sin! I’m forever grateful! There’s no way I’m turning back to my old lifestyle. God has been too good!!

Thank You Lord 🙌🏾